Monday, July 17, 2017

You control me.

I am supposed to control you.
But I don't
You control me.

It's hard for me to put you down
when I am sitting at the table.
when i am talking to my friends 
I still am not able

I am supposed to be working 
but you're stuck in my hand
I want to go to sleep 
but your control i can't withstand 

They keep coming up with new ways
To glue you to me 
I just want to put you down 
Why can't you let me be

Even when i finally decide 
It's time to throw you out
More opposing reasons pop in my head
That say i can't without a doubt.

I plead and beg 
Just go away 
I cant live with you 
Even for one more day.

But like I said...
I am supposed to control you.
But I don't
You control me.

**If you know what the "you" is in my poem comment below.
If you have any suggestions or comments please feel free to write them below.



Monday, March 28, 2016

Improve Your Memory.


Don’t you hate it when you can’t remember where your keys are, or the material you need to know for the test? I think we all have those moments in our life where we forget things that we need to remember. A person will always forget things here and there but there are definitely ways to improve your memory. Here are some ways that I came up:
Stay away from distraction. Study in places that are free of distractions. DO NOT study in front of a television, around crying, babies or noisy roommates. If getting away from these distractions all the time is hard, then set aside some time to study away from these distractions.
Avoid cramming material before a test. Set a study schedule for yourself and pace your studying over a couple of days. This allows the information to process in your brain and it stays in your long term memory so you don’t by accident forget something during the test.
Sleep well. While you sleep your brain doesn’t rest, it is busy practicing what you learned the day before. If you are trying to learn something new or trying to remember things it is best to sleep before doing so.
Eat healthy. Eating healthy and drinking a lot of water can help your brain improve its memory. Here is some food that have a high chance of improving your memory. Oil based salad dressings, fish, dark green leafy vegetables, avocado, sunflower seeds, peanuts and peanut butter, and whole grains. To sum it all up stick with foods that are high in vitamin E and high in fiber.
Use Acronyms. Acronyms can be used to remember a variety of things. For example, if you need to remember your shopping list and you have to buy bread, apples and milk, just remember BAM and then you automatically remember what you need.
Use acrostics. Acrostics are very similar to acronyms but you are taking the first letter of each word that you need to remember and changing it to make a new sentence. For example, Please Excuse My Dear Aunt Sally. It is used to remember the order of operations in math; Parentheses, Exponents, Multiplication, Division, Addition, and Subtraction.
Say it out loud. Research says that if you say what you need to remember out loud then it improves the memory of the material. For example, when studying for a test it might help to teach someone else the material so it stays in your head better.
Play brain games. This might sound lame and something you don’t like doing but playing games like Sudoku and crosswords actually improve your memory. A study showed that people who played a computer game called Double Decision for six years gained such high concentration skills that they had sixty percent lower rate of car accidents
The list can go on and on because there is so many things you can do to improve your memory. I hope the things that I listed can really help you have a better memory!

Friday, March 25, 2016

TRUE FRIENDS

Have you ever wondered if your friends are true friends? STOP! Firstly, if you are having doubts that is probably the number one hint that they are not a true friend. But..... if you do want to make sure they are good, true friends, look at the qualities in your friendship and then you will fully know if they are a real friend to you.


    Here, I made you a guide of the good qualities in a friendship.
                                      TRUST
    Trust is the most important characteristic in a friendship. Without trust there is no friendship. You need to be able to trust someone to call them a good friend. Someone who knows better than to tell your secrets to her boyfriend or mother. Someone you don’t have to say “please don’t tell anyone” They should know not to tell anyone anything you say that is personal. Someone you know wont tell people your secrets behind your back. They are loyal to you.
    NO JUDGEMENT
       A true friend wont judge you on your past mistakes and bad decisions. They know that the same way they have made bad decision in their life so did you – no body is perfect. Someone who love you for her you are no matter the flaws. But one exception if their flaws are constantly hurting you in the process that is not a real friend. 
    SUPPORT
      A true friend is someone will cheer you on while you accomplish your dreams. They may not agree with your every move but they will stand by you and support you no matter what. A true friend is someone you can lean on for support for everything.
    FORGIVING
        Every friendship comes with disagreeing and dispute but true friends won’t let these disputes and disagreements get in the way of their friendship. A true friend will forgive you and won’t let the dispute impact their friendship. Someone who forgives and doesn’t ever use it against them in an argument. Someone who forgives you because they know you’ll do better next time.
    DEPENDABLE
    A true friend is someone who you can depend on for anything. They aren’t there only when its convenient, their there through thick and thin. They aren’t someone who is constantly canceling on your plans. You can count on them to be there for you in joy and sorrow.
    GOOD LISTENER
      They may not always have good advice for you but they definitely got working ears. Someone who will listen to your stories for the hundredth time and won’t make a fuss because they know they need someone to hear them out. 
    HONEST
    True friends wouldn’t lie to you no matter the situation. They will look you in eyes and tell you that you are in hot mess rather than telling you with a smile that it’s no big deal.

      The list can go on and on because there is so many qualities in a good friend. But these are the most important ones. I hope that all your friends are true friends and if they are not its time to show them where the door is.










    Tuesday, March 22, 2016

    My Goal.

    Hi everyone,
    Sooo where do I begin? Okay so this is my first blog post as you can see, and I want to take the time and explain why I am starting a blog, and what my goal of the blog is.

    Ever since I was younger I loved to write. Writing is my way of expressing myself and a way for me to get out what I am holding up inside. I write poems, paragraphs, songs and letters but I don't let too many people read my writings. Also, it is my passion to help people. I just love it. I get a thrill from giving people advice, helping them, and knowing what I have said impacted people. So here I am bringing my writing to the next level and starting a blog.

    My goal of this blog is to give people the advice that they need and show my inspirational writings to the world. I want people to be able to email me questions and answer them in my blog posts. I want to help people with different situations, give people advice about dealing with different types of people. Basically to sum it up I want to be able to give as much advice as I can to whoever needs it.

    I hope my blog is successful and I am able to help as many people as possible!