TRUE FRIENDS

Have you ever wondered if your friends are true friends? STOP! Firstly, if you are having doubts that is probably the number one hint that they are not a true friend. But..... if you do want to make sure they are good, true friends, look at the qualities in your friendship and then you will fully know if they are a real friend to you.

Here, I made you a guide of the good qualities in a friendship.

                                  TRUST

Trust is the most important characteristic in a friendship. Without trust there is no friendship. You need to be able to trust someone to call them a good friend. Someone who knows better than to tell your secrets to her boyfriend or mother. Someone you don’t have to say “please don’t tell anyone” They should know not to tell anyone anything you say that is personal. Someone you know wont tell people your secrets behind your back. They are loyal to you.

NO JUDGEMENT

   A true friend wont judge you on your past mistakes and bad decisions. They know that the same way they have made bad decision in their life so did you – no body is perfect. Someone who love you for her you are no matter the flaws. But one exception if their flaws are constantly hurting you in the process that is not a real friend. 

SUPPORT

  A true friend is someone will cheer you on while you accomplish your dreams. They may not agree with your every move but they will stand by you and support you no matter what. A true friend is someone you can lean on for support for everything.

FORGIVING

    Every friendship comes with disagreeing and dispute but true friends won’t let these disputes and disagreements get in the way of their friendship. A true friend will forgive you and won’t let the dispute impact their friendship. Someone who forgives and doesn’t ever use it against them in an argument. Someone who forgives you because they know you’ll do better next time.

DEPENDABLE

A true friend is someone who you can depend on for anything. They aren’t there only when its convenient, their there through thick and thin. They aren’t someone who is constantly canceling on your plans. You can count on them to be there for you in joy and sorrow.

GOOD LISTENER

  They may not always have good advice for you but they definitely got working ears. Someone who will listen to your stories for the hundredth time and won’t make a fuss because they know they need someone to hear them out. 

HONEST

True friends wouldn’t lie to you no matter the situation. They will look you in eyes and tell you that you are in hot mess rather than telling you with a smile that it’s no big deal.

  The list can go on and on because there is so many qualities in a good friend. But these are the most important ones. I hope that all your friends are true friends and if they are not its time to show them where the door is.